How Steady works

Relationship skills are a practice. Steady is the training.

Ten minutes a day. One lesson, one scenario, one action. Your progress stays visible so you can see the skills stacking up — before you need them.

The daily loop

Four moves, ten minutes

1. Open today's practice

A short lesson with a clear idea you can use the same day. No lectures, no homework.

+10 SP

2. Run the scenario

A fictional situation with a few ways to respond. You see what each choice tends to create.

+15 SP

3. Take one action

One small thing to do in real life. Mark it done when it's done — that's the whole ask.

+25 SP

4. Check your signal

Say how you're doing and get a reviewed action card that fits the moment.

Anytime

The Steady Practice

Three zones, 21 days

The Base steadies you. The Skills sharpen how you speak and listen. The Build is partnership, boundaries, and repair. Every checkpoint lights up as you finish it.

Move at your pace. Missing a day never sets you back — you pick up where you left off.

140Steady Points
4Practice Rhythm
2Badges

Sample progress shown.

Zone 1 · Days 1–7

The Base

4 / 7 checkpoints

Self-control, awareness, triggers, emotions

  1. Day
  2. Day
  3. Day
  4. Day
  5. Day5
  6. Day6
  7. Day7

Zone 2 · Days 8–14

The Skills

0 / 7 checkpoints

Communication, listening, boundaries, dating with integrity

  1. Day8
  2. Day9
  3. Day10
  4. Day11
  5. Day12
  6. Day13
  7. Day14

Zone 3 · Days 15–21

The Build

0 / 7 checkpoints

Partnership, accountability, repair, ongoing growth

  1. Day15
  2. Day16
  3. Day17
  4. Day18
  5. Day19
  6. Day20
  7. Day21

Progress you can see

Steady Points, levels, badges

4/21Days
Builder140 SP

Next level: Grounded

Every practice, scenario, and action adds Steady Points. Points move you through six levels, from Starting Line to Steady Practice.

The levels

  1. Starting Line0 SP
  2. Builder100 SP
  3. Grounded300 SP
  4. Clear Communicator600 SP
  5. Trusted Teammate1000 SP
  6. Steady Practice1500 SP

The Badge Cabinet

Eleven badges mark real milestones. Sample cabinet shown.

First Step

Complete your first daily practice.

Scenario Starter

Complete your first scenario.

Calm Under Pressure

Complete Zone 1, The Base.

Clear Listener

Complete the Communicate and Listen Better days.